Thank you all for your sympathetic words regarding Sue’s passing. Many of you alluded to the solace to be found in gardening at times such as these and it is indeed where I have spent much of my time in the last couple of days. It seems to me that the solace to be found comes from the fact that the life of a garden doesn’t hesitate for a moment over the loss of a human; it is governed by the time of year and the climate and its needs have to be met whatever the circumstances of the gardener. Keeping busy is probably the best thing for me just now, so gardening by day and blogging in the evening fits the bill nicely.
Inevitably, I am a bit behind and have catching up to do. I’ve been watering, weeding, sowing seeds, potting up cuttings and seedlings and tidying up Sue’s glasshouse. It’s going to take me a while to learn which things dry out the quickest, which need attention in the form of feeding or repotting and so on.
At the beginning of the week we had a touch of frost, not enough to do damage but a reminder that it’s still quite early in the year. Nevertheless there is an abundance of growth and flowering going on and I’m eager not to miss another Saturday six, comfortable in the certainty that Sue would want me back in the saddle ASAP.
One.
There isn’t much flowering in Sue’s glasshouse, a couple of Aeoniums and this Echeveria , which is sporting a label reading ECHEVERIA RAMILETTE CRISTATA. That seems to be wrong, there is no indication that any part of it is cristate, and it seems to match a plant online called Echeveria ‘Ramilette’. The description for that says it often produces crested shoots, which would explain the confusion. The flowers are a rich orange and it is the earliest of her many Echeverias to flower.

Two.
In March 2021 I bought five seeds and five seedlings of Clivia miniata from Hoyland Plant Centre, holders of a national collection of the species. Several of them are now in flower and I should be picking out a few of the best and disposing of the rest but I never find it easy to get rid of things so will likely keep most of them for another year at least. Here are the best strong orange and a light peachy-yellow that are definitely keepers.
Three.
There is even more happening outside. I only have two Rhododendrons, four if you include my two Azalea japonica bushes, one of which is Rhododendrom ‘Merganser’. It has had its share of dieback over the years but seems quite healthy at the moment and is covered in its small primrose yellow blooms.
Four.
There are two small trees of Enkianthus growing side by side at Mount Edgcumbe which appear to be seedlings, similar but different. I collected some seed from one several years ago and gave them back three young plants, keeping one for myself. I planted it out last year and it is flowering for the first time this year and looks to be very good. It’s in ground where I’ve lost plants to honey fungus so I have my fingers tightly crossed for it.

Five.
Talking of honey fungus, my Victoria plum tree has died. It produced a ridiculous crop of tiny plums last year, which I bottled and am still eating, but there will be none this year. I’ll get out what root I can but won’t plant anything woody there for a few years. I was given a massively tall grass in the autumn, it might just be the spot for it.

Six.
Ferns all round the garden are looking lovely with their new foliage and Dryopteris wallichiana ‘Jurassic Gold’ is one of the best right now. It’s not an especially bright gold but sufficiently so to stand out from the preponderance of green. Too bad I planted it where I did, right behind a trellis post. I’m not sure what I was thinking. Perhaps I should plant another somewhere better.
I asked the hospice if I could plant a camellia that I have in my tunnel in their grounds as a memorial to Sue, a variety called Camellia ‘Festival of Lights’, and they readily agreed. I’ll grow it on for the summer and plant it in the autumn.
It might seem like back to normal but it is anything but. I’m on autopilot, going through the routines, doing what I always do on a Friday evening. All except that extra item I sneaked in there.






I am so sorry to hear of Sue’s passing. My heart is with you.
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The Camellia is a beautiful tribute to Sue.
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A wonderful gift to the hospice, Jim. The garden is a good place to seek solaceand Sue’s wonderful plants a presence.
My six for this week
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I agree with everyone else the camellia would definitely be spectacular addition to there gardens. The azaleas brightened my day, and put a smile on my face.
I’m full of blooms this week, here are my top 6.
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Big hugs Jim ❤️ The camellia will be a lovely tribute to Sue and the hospice
I have killed several clivia seedlings from Hoyland, but seeing yours makes me want to try again…! Maybe not a good idea though… https://ramblinginthegarden.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-munching-lunch/
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The camellia will be such a beautiful addition to the hospice grounds. Sometimes, autopilot is just what’s needed.
Gorgeous clivia – your apricot one is really special. I’ve been trying to get anything other than the standard mid-orange out here, but it’s a difficult feat.
https://littleblueandwhitehouse.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-18th-april-2026/
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That will be a beautiful gift to the hospice.
I love enkianthus.
As you work in the garden among plants you and Sue shared, I am reminded of this quotation that used to bring me comfort when a friend died. As I get older, I am more unsure about words of comfort but I do think it applies to working with the tools and plants of a loved one.
I think lately I might find these words too simple if they were offered up to me at a time of great loss but here goes in case there is a scrap of comfort there. I really do appreciate the line “the familiar things she touched, worked with, loved as familiar friends”, which speaks to me of gardening or carpentry, craft skills.
“In one sense there is no death. The life of a soul on earth lasts beyond her departure. You will always feel that life touching yours, that voice speaking to you, that spirit looking out of others’ eyes, talking to you in the familiar things she touched, worked with, loved as familiar friends. She lives on in your life and in the lives of all others who knew her” . -Angelo Patri
My six: https://tanglycottage.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-red/
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My heart goes out to you in your sorrow, Jim. Thank you for sharing your journey of grief with your readers. Camilia ‘Festival of Lights” is such a beautiful tribute in Sue’s memory. I know that its beauty will bring a measure of comfort to those who are spending time with a loved one under hospice care. It will also bless and encourage those who lovingly provide end of life care–very special people, indeed.
My contribution for SOS: https://barefootlilylady.com/2026/04/18/the-fleeting-charm-of-magnolias/
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I like the fern very much! Sending you good wishes from the City Garden: https://enthusiasticgardener.com/2026/04/18/end-of-april-in-london/
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My goodness, Jim. I had not realized what you are going through. Such a difficult loss to process. My condolences to you. Wishing you peace. The garden provides a great deal of solace for me. That Camellia is perfect. I envy the Clivias you can grow, there is a giant grasshopper here that eats them all. https://theshrubqueen.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-spring-bounty/
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Camellia ‘Festival of Lights’ is truly a gem. What a beautiful tribute. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jim. Thank you for continuing to host this beautiful meme.
https://plantpostings.blogspot.com/2026/04/six-woodland-wonders.html
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Jim, I’m so sorry to learn about Sue. Photos from her wonderful cactus house has brought much joy to this reader (and many others I’m sure) over the years – I look forward to continuing to experience it through your eyes. Festival of Lights is a perfect tribute.
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Placing the Camellia in memory of your dear wife is a fitting tribute. It can be a point of reflection for you. Thank you so much in sharing your loss with us.
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I am so sorry for your loss. The camellia is a beauty and will bring joy to everyone who sees it.
The Echeveria are adorable with their little flowers like pennants about the plants. In my world, Spring means unstable weather, and it has been a wild week. My intrepid plants are slowly waking up, unfazed by wind rain hail and rumored tornadoes (luckily non of those very near me). Here are mine. Not a lot to see yet, but anything green is welcome after winter loosens its grip.
https://wisconsingarden.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/april-18-2026-six-on-saturday/
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The Camellia is so beautiful in bud and also when the flowers open, what a fantastic tribute to Sue and the care she received in the hospice.
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Your extra item is a treat for you, for us and for Sue. I’m sure Sue’s cactus house will be getting plenty of attention and will be a place of connection for you. The garden with its fantastic selection of plants will carry you forwards, comforting you along the way.
Here’s my link to some rather more ordinary plants. https://n20gardener.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-filling-out-nicely/
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I spent Thursday morning in Sue’s glasshouse, getting familiar and getting a grip. Looking after her plants is a high priority.
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I know only too well what functioning on autopilot is like. But whatever gets you through these surreal days is okay. One breath at a time. ‘Festival of Lights’ is a gorgeous tribute to Sue. So many will find joy in the beauty of her flowers.
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A hard week Jim however you and your garden continue and reach out to us who find gardens and gardening very close to our hearts for many reasons. What a fitting choice of plants for the hospice grounds which will be flowering just at the right time each year. Here are my six in solidarity: https://noellemace.blogspot.com/2026/04/six-on-saturday-18-april-2026.html
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What a beautiful camellia you have chosen to give to the hospice in memory of Sue, I’m sure everyone who visits will appreciate it.
I like your Rhododendron Merganser very much indeed with its nodding bells.
My six are here…….https://www.leadupthegardenpath.com
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What a beautiful & very fitting idea about gifting the Camellia. I’m sure it will bring pleasure to everyone who sees it there in the future.
My six https://wp.me/p88ZiK-d7J
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Jim, the ‘extra item’ Camelia is delightful and a lovely tribute to Sue. Autopilot or not, take care of yourself as you navigate this difficult time. I just love the Clivia and I hope they are all successful…I just hate getting rid of extra plants too. Shame about the plum. I am not familiar with honey fungus but it sounds like a real pain in the neck.
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Hello all,
Sorry for your loss Jim, I hope you do find solace in the routine and rhythm of the garden.
Seeking some symbolism, I looked up the mythology of echeveria. The plants and flowers foundation of Holland say “Echeveria does not have any official meaning. But in view of its tough nature, we think the plant represents persistence and strength, making it a nice gesture for someone who is going through a difficult time.”
It’s a lovely flower to start with, and the Camelia ‘festival of lights’ is a beautiful way to pay tribute to Sue’s memory. The camellia has come to symbolize grace, beauty, sophistication, and perseverance.
Sharing our garden highlights and lowlights is a wonderful way to connect with nature and each other, and I love to see all the changes in our garden stories each week. Here’s my selection from a Somerset garden on a bright spring morning.
https://doingtheplan.com/2026/04/18/bluebells-grannys-bonnet-tulip-pansies-apple-blossom-and-baby-conker-trees/
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I clearly either can’t count or am not awake enough to have noticed the extra item, but what a stunning camellia and a perfect tribute to Sue.
I was reassured to find that even very experienced gardeners plant things and then later realise they’re not in the best place! I seem to have done that rather a lot. And it’s no wonder that honey fungus strikes fear into the heart of every gardener, what a nightmare.
My six this week is here: https://mysanctuarygarden.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-18-04-2026/
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A lovely post in difficult times. The camellia for the hospice garden is wonderful. https://potsandplots.blog/2026/04/18/sixonsaturday-18-04-2026/
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How nice that the Hospice facility can accommodate the camellia. Clivia are splendid. So is that Echeveria, which is smaller than its own name.
Here are my six.
https://tonytomeo.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-rose-parade-2026/
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The camellia at the hospice is a beautiful idea – a lovely tribute and also something wonderful for all future residents to enjoy.
https://highgategarden.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/garden-and-terrace/
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Be aware that ajuga also spreads by seed. It can be very invasive. Ants will carry the seed far and wide. I have a purple polka dotted lawn as proof!
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Thanks – I’ll keep an eye out to make sure it doesn’t go all over! For now, it’s still a tiny plant.
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The primrose yellow flowers of the Rhododendrom ‘Merganser’ are rather splendid. It’d good to hear you’re finding solace in your garden and the camellia will be a lovely memorial for Sue at the hospice grounds https://onemanandhisgardentrowel.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-18-april-2026/
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It’s an excellent idea to plant this camellia in the hospice gardens. There are some very lovely words in your article this week.
Here’s the link to mine, and I cheated a little by adding a 7e photo as a sign of support for you, who runs this meme every week for us : https://fredgardenerblog2.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/six-on-saturday-18-04-26/
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I pleased you made it, Jim. I’m sure your garden will give you at least a smidgeon of solace. Gorgeous camellia with a very beautiful name for the hospice. Your fern is amazing, I have a feeling I’ve planted one of these for a client and I don’t remember it being that bright. Perhaps it wasn’t what it said on the tin. Here are my six https://offtheedgegardening.com/2026/04/17/six-on-saturday-solidarity/ Be kind to yourself, we are all thinking of you x
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That “extra item” will be a beautiful tribute to Sue, and a lovely “thank you” to the hospice team. Autopilot is helpful for now.
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